We need to figure out why someone would leave their family and find family with a gang. What family feel does a gang have that your own family doesn’t give you. It can’t actually be love or companionship or anything else like that because everything done...
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It is sad to see so many turn on HONY and this man instead of feeling compassion and understanding. Rehabilitation does exist in other countries but sadly where I live no one cares about what you have been through to make your mistakes, only that Barcelona...
This is life in a lot of Latin-American countries. This is how gangs work. Sometimes gangs have more power than authorities. And to the people who say “change your life. get out” etc. Here, the only way to get out of a gang is in a body bag. Once you...
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Lindsay honestly, if I did not have two other children I might’ve thrown myself under a bus. But your dear mom’s “can’t give up” message got me (gets me) out of bed every day. Yes, the 2nd year is harder. I’m sorry to tell you that for me, year 4 is kicking...
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